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Sunday, 6 December 2015

ISIS Keeps Spreading Their Evil Tentacles




There was a terrorist attack at the Leytonstone underground station in London yesterday when a 29-year-old man slashed a man with a knife while screaming "this is for Syria. This is what happens when you fuck with mother Syria". Onlookers, who stayed a safe distance while this crazed man tried to slash others with his knife yelled back at him saying things like, "you ain't no Muslim bruv' and 'drop it, you fool". 


He was eventually tasered by the police when he refused to drop his weapon and stand down. The case is currently being investigated by Scotland Yard. The poor victim sustained serious injuries. 

These lone attacks are the worst because they are so random and hard to envisage. One minute a seemingly harmless chap is walking beside you and the next minute, he is cutting you down. How do you begin to understand what's inside of person's head and mind? I recall the case of Lee Rigby, a British Army soldier, who was attacked, butchered and murdered by two religious fanatics, Michael Adebolajo and Michael Adebowale (the irony of both of them bearing Michael yet .....). Rigby was off duty and casually walking on a street when he was hacked to death by these two cowardly psychos. The butchered him, calmly waited for the police and told passers-by that they did it to avenge the death of Muslims killed by British armed forces. 

What sort of madness and brainwashing would possess a person to this point? I absolutely loathe the way Boko Haram brainwashes kids and converts them to suicide bombers as well. I think the world has allowed these nefarious psychos to fester for too long all the in bid to stay politically correct and now we are paying for it. Now the world is tethering the brink of world war 111 with all the crisis these terrorists have created across the world.

When will it all end?



#OnMyRadar - Kogi State Gets A New Governor




Alhaji Yahaya Bello, the APC gubernatorial candidate in Kogi state has been declared the winner of the governorship poll by INEC. Faleke who was the running mate to the late Audu remains Yayaha Bello's running mate.



APC polled 247, 752 votes and defeated PDP who came up close behind them with 204, 877 votes.


I'm just glad the Audu's are nowhere this. -_-

Saturday, 5 December 2015

The Season Is Upon Us. :)




Yup! The season is surely upon us. Harmattan has hit Lagos and I must confess that I am loving it right now especially after the horrendous heat wave that hit Lagos for the past four weeks or so. 

Besides the weather, the video below just made the Christmas season more real to me. I was grinning from ear to ear and bobbing up and down through out the song. Methinks Alex Boye has topped himself with this one, and if you follow my blog closely you would know why I am gushing about Alex and this video. I think he is absolutely fantastic and you can check out a few of his other songs which I have shared on here.  

Truth be told, I didn't think anyone could sing The Little Drummer Boy better than the Pentatonix version which I shared here as well last year, but I believe Alex Boye just did. And the icing on the cake is the #AllHeartsAlways message he had at the end of the video. 

The message being this: this Christmas season, don't just ask what you get but ask what you can give to others. Be #AllHeartsAlways

Wowsers!!!!! Oh me, oh my, I am loving it. Check it out and see for yourself.

#MusicIsEverything


Friday, 4 December 2015

#TGIF - This Cutie Will Have You Laughing



Oh my days, this is one of the cutest videos ever. Watch this little angel switch facial expressions at a prompting from her mum. It is so cute and funny. I wonder how she does it because she seems so young.

How's your weekend looking? ;) 


#AllHeartsAlways - Remembering Kindness


This is a beautiful story about a young lady who was operated upon when she was a baby and then got a surprise visit from the surgeon who performed the surgery on her 15 years later. Ashli  Taylor had to undergo a life-saving liver transplant when she was only a few months old as a result of a rare congenital condition. Her mother's decision to donate a part of her own liver and the expertise and skills of the surgeon Dr. Robert Goldstein, added to the miracles that formed and saved little Ashli's life. 
Dr. Goldstein
Recently, 15-year-old Ashli was given a creative writing assignment by her teacher and she chose to send a letter to Dr. Goldstein and thank him for what he did for her way back then. She wrote and mailed the letter and thought nothing about it again until he showed up in her school to visit her. He casually strolled into her theater arts class in her Texas high school and introduced himself. Dr. Goldstein said he was deeply touched by her gesture and decided to surprise her with a visit. 


Ashli was clearly overjoyed to finally meet the man who gave her a chance at living. What makes her story even more remarkable is the fact that her mother got a call on the same day terrorists blew up the World Trade Center Towers and the Pentagon and learnt that they needed to carry out a transplant immediately on Ashli. Unfortunately, even though they could have gotten the transplant done in the next state, all flights had been grounded due to security protocols. However, fortunately, Ashli's mum's liver matched hers and so the surgery was successfully carried out by Dr. Goldstein.



Bless. :) 








Story Source: www.dailymail.co.uk

Ode To Friday And Some Rants



Hello Friday, it's me

I have been waiting for you all week long

You have brought joy to my heart and a song

It's been such a distance between us, see

But at last you are here for me

You did not come alone, no Friday

You brought Saturday and Sunday

O, what fun we will have

A foursome like none other we would carve

Hello Friday, it's me

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LOL. I know, It's a bit nuts to write a poem dedicated to Friday but such is the level of my weariness that I look forward to the weekend. Nigeria drains me mentally and physically. I had a rough night because there was no light, no fuel to run my generator, no breeze no nothing to make the night bearable. My poor kids were perspiring but they slept soundly, thankfully. 

I was so upset overnight with the country and the way things have been run so far. How can citizens not have access to petrol? It's like living by a stream yet dying of thirst. So wrong and unjust to us. Something needs to give, but unfortunately I don't know how or when it would because majority of Nigerians are all talk and zero actions. 

In this same country, we are hearing all over the place about how some former "leaders" shared a loot of about N2.1 BILLION meant for the arming and safety of soldiers. These selfish buggers took the money, shared it and sent those poor chaps to their deaths, faced with Boko Haram with no adequate weapons. How cruel can one get? They could have used all that money to buy so many top and tech weapons to fight the terrorists and save thousands of lives but no, why save lives when we can steal it all and squander it on luxuries. KMFT. They are worse than terrorists and I hope they get served what's due them.

If half of the poppycock we are subjected to here where to occur in other countries, heads would have been rolling and the needful would have been done.

Sigh. 

Let me not ruin my lovely weekend so early in the day with my justified ramblings. Friday is upon us after all. :) 



#TGIF

#AllHeartsAlways


Thursday, 3 December 2015

#BlogFeature - Weed, Wine and Wild-sex: The destructive tripod



Here's another lengthy but interesting article from Charles Olomofe about health matters. He has written quite a few articles which I have featured on my blog in the past. Enjoy.

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I will like to start by dousing any diversion that the title might generate; this I intend to do by providing a rather familiar terminology to buttress this topic.
‘Weeds’ are sometimes used when we imply tobacco products which are smoked, chewed or snuffed. ‘Wine’ on the other hand may also mean alcoholic drinks in whatever strength. ‘Wild-sex’ is synonymous to sexual experience that is risky i.e. sex that is laden with unintended consequences like sexually transmitted infections (STI) including HIV/AIDS and unplanned pregnancies.

Opening-up the weed
            Tobacco use is the leading cause of preventable morbidity and mortality worldwide. Everyday 13,000 people die from tobacco use worldwide and nearly 6million people succumb to tobacco related illness annually1. If the current pattern of tobacco use and intervention effort is sustained, WHO projects a rise from 1.2billion to 1.6billion smokers and annual death increase from 4.9million to 10million between 2000 and 2030. Moreover, about 600,000 non smokers die yearly as a result of being exposed to secondhand smoke. Research however shows that nearly 80% of the world’s 1.2 billion smokers live in low and middle income countries (LMICs). It is estimated that the number of smokers in developing countries alone will rise to 1.4 billion by 2030 and if this goes unchecked  tobacco will not only be the leading cause of premature mortality in industrialized nations, but also the leading cause of premature death worldwide2.

            Sadly, a lot of young people are trapped in this cul-de-sac, much more are being recruited daily and the epidemic of tobacco use is now approaching a catastrophic proportion. Nicotine the additive culprit in cigarettes, not only speeds up the nervous system but also stimulate users by offering a ‘transient energy’ which leaves them with nothing but lung cancer and cocktail of diseases in later years. The medical, social and economic cost to our society is fast becoming incalculable and something drastic must be done to reverse the trend.
World Health Organization Framework Convention for Tobacco Control (WHOFCTC) is a novel regulatory approach to reduce this menace, but many countries are not implementing its dictates despite having the law in place.

The soothing of the wine
The seemingly innocuous behavior of drinking alcohol only at weddings, funerals and festivals is now a regular practice at pastime in this age of globalization. Granted minimal alcohol intake is medically allowed but drawing the line between intoxication and safety is a height most users have never been able to attain. The soothing effect, the fear of withdrawal syndrome and pleasure disinhibition leaves most alcoholics without any emotional restraint against the next bottle.
Alcohol remains the most abused substance worldwide. WHO says that about 600,000 cancer deaths globally are due to alcohol consumption and this is second only to tobacco when cancer mortality is counted3. Alcoholics dig their own grave when they unwittingly intoxicate their liver with overdose of alcoholic drinks until it shuts down and cannot perform its natural function of detoxification. The enormity of this reckless behavior in our clime was on display, when over 80 young farmers in two different states in Nigeria were sent to an untimely grave following a drinking spree which was later found to be methanol poisoning. A lot of our youths in high schools and tertiary institutions are drinking their ‘destiny’ away obliviously and their parents and guardians are encumbered by the tasking economic situation, global liberalization and cultural laxity.
Tobacco and alcohol are not alone on this list; illicit drugs like cocaine, hemp, and heroine are becoming a growing concern. National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) estimated that 16million Nigerians use narcotic drugs, and now there is a growing evidence linking violence and drugs use. The world drug report of United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC 2009) estimated that total number of people using illicit drugs at upwards of 250million. Mr. Perez de Cueller, at the special session of the United Nations indicated that “drug abuse is a time bomb ticking away in the heart of civilization and there is need to quickly find measures to deal with it before it explodes and destroys”
Sooner than we had thought, the fruits have started to trickle in. Indiscriminate shooting, terrorism that is all over the landscape, is a clarion call to take drugs away from miscreants. Blowing up a fellow human being cannot only be explained as religious extremism, radicalism or racism, someone might be ‘high on something’ to perform such heinous crime.

The Risk behind sex
Risky sexual behavior is one reason HIV transmission is still a menace. Premarital sex is now a norm, unprotected sex an adventure and sexually transmitted infections (STI) including HIV/AIDS and unplanned pregnancy a recurring consequence. Sex becomes risky when it is initiated at early age or unprotected with multiple partners. It is equally risky when it is done under the influence of alcohol which may hamper good judgment and accurate reasoning. HIV/AIDS is a growing pandemic that had devastated many families and communities worldwide. Its effects have been greatest in sub-Saharan African region. In Nigeria for example, HIV/AIDS remains No 1 killer and the country has the second largest population of people living with HIV/AIDS in the region4. Whether the country is winning the war against HIV/AIDS is still debatable, but the preponderance of risky sexual activity going on against the backdrop of poverty, violence, terrorism, rape, disrupted family ties etc may require a critical look. Just as the world is thinking of “Getting to zero” going by the theme of World AIDS Day 2015, sources of new HIV infection must be plugged. It is therefore imperative to address those socio-economic, political, cultural factors fueling its spread.

The nexus of the trio
Young people are at the centre of this destructive onslaught. They are not only the actors, but also the victims. Young people are very vulnerable to risky behaviors; peer pressure, excessive energy and risk taking tendencies seem to be their greatest undoing. They tend to initiate same early in life, maintain it into adulthood and if they are lucky to live long enough, the consequences of such reckless behavior will now frustrates their health and wellbeing in later years. Therefore, parents need to keep close tabs on their children; it is high time we started making trade-offs between our work and our wards. If they are left to smoke and drink, risky sex may not be too far from them.
Until we control illicit drug use and fix social determinants fanning the ember of risky behavior, our society may not witness the true peace we all crave.
There shall be peace in our homes, peace in our nation and peace all around the world.

Charles Olomofe (MBChB,MWACP)
Health and Behavioral Change Advocate
@chartol1 on twitter


References
1.        Building blocks for tobacco control: A World Health Organization (WHO) handbook 2004
2.        Taylor A, Bettcher D, Peck R. International law and the international legislative process: The WHO Framework Convention on Tobacco Control. In: Smith R et al., eds. Global public goods for health. Oxford, Oxford University Press, 2003: Chapter 11.
3.        WHO clarifies processed meat/cancer link after a ‘beacon-gate’. www.medscape.com

4.        Statistical report on women and men in Nigeria. National Bureau of Statistics (NBS) December 2014. 

Wednesday, 2 December 2015

#Survey: Empowering Women




A reputable company wants to carry out a survey to find out the various directions available to build a strong and brilliant empowerment program for women.

They want a unique and outstanding Women Empowerment Program like no other.

In line with this, they have developed a questionnaire (please click here or below) to aide them on this journey and they hope you will all assist in this survey by sending the questionnaires to family and friends who are women and within the ages 18-40.

Thank you.

#Poem: Folds Of Flaming Fires




I sit and feel the overwhelming rush

Which washes over me and makes me flush

As I recall your tenderness and caring heart

And your outspoken sincerity as genuine as art

Our chemistry set emotions alight

For each time we met all senses took flight

O, my dear heart beats so much

As my body yearns for your soft touch

The way you looked at me, stripping my soul bare

Made our love story devoid of fear

Yet, memories are all I have left

For ever since you stole my heart, I have become deft

In filling the void which you created

When you had our love cremated





Tuesday, 1 December 2015

New Month, New Beginning


Wow, it's kinda hard to believe this year is rounding up so quickly. Wasn't it just yesterday we were all screaming "Happy new year"? :) I am glad to be alive and well on this first day of December. So many things have happened during the course of the year, so many people have sadly passed on, so many lessons have been learned, so many mysteries unravelled, so many feelings have surfaced, so many things have happened. 

I am grateful because I am alive and well (I cannot say this enough, knowing the challenges I have faced so far), and so are my family members, loved ones, blog visitors and friends. Yes, I am really grateful for each and everyone of you. 

At the beginning of the year, I wished it would be a productive year for me and for you all. So far, it has been but i still have some unmet expectations so I am willing all of these to unravel by all means before the end of this year. It is not too late to achieve what you set out to achieve at the beginning the year. We have at least 30 days left in 2025 to make this happen, so make it happen. :)

Cheers and do have a prosperous month ahead.